Personal Christian matching
We carefully consider faith, character, childcare experience, expectations and likely family fit.
Families in the UK
Welcome a Christian au pair into family life
Find practical help with children and routines while sharing your home, church life and culture with a Christian young person.
How Christian Au Pairs helps
Private room and meals
Your au pair should have a clean private room and meals as part of everyday family life.
Support throughout
Christian Au Pairs remains available during the placement if questions, difficulties or changes arise.
Choose the right level of help
Au Pair, Au Pair Plus or Mother's Helper
The exact arrangement must be agreed clearly before placement and remain consistent with current UK immigration, employment and minimum-wage requirements.
Au Pair | Au Pair Plus | Mother's Helper | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Typical hours | Up to about 25 hours per week. | About 30 hours per week. | About 35–40 hours per week. |
| Typical help | Childcare and agreed light household work. | More regular family help across the week. | A broader agreed role for an experienced applicant. |
| Typical duties | Washing, ironing, light house-work, meal preparation, helping with children. | Washing, ironing, house-work, tidying, cleaning, meal preparation, childcare. | Typical au pair duties, with a greater emphasis on childcare and looking after infants. |
Before you match
What a healthy placement needs
The best matches begin with an honest offer and a realistic understanding of the au pair's role.
Welcome them as family
Include your au pair appropriately in meals, conversation, church and family life while respecting their independence.
Set duties clearly
Agree childcare, light household tasks, hours and weekly routines before either side accepts the match.
Support church and community
Make room for reasonable access to church, community and language classes, with any costs agreed clearly in advance.
Discuss driving
If driving is required, say so early. You must provide appropriate insurance and cover programme-related vehicle costs.
Personal Time
Au pairs should have their own private space in your home, a personal allowance, and some free time to explore life in the UK.
Open Communication
Christian Au Pairs is here to help ensure the placement runs smoothly. If any problems occur, don't hesitate to call us.
Transparent costs
Simple, fair and
all-inclusive pricing
We believe in clear pricing with no hidden fees.Once you’ve successfully matched with an au pair, your matching fee is due.
To apply
£50
After a successful match
This fee is only payable after we have matched you.
Au Pair
£650
General household duties up to 25 hours per week, 5 hours per day.
Au Pair Plus
£700
Household duties and child care up to 30 hours per week.
Mother's Help
£750
Extensive household duties and young child care up to 35-40 hours per week.
What’s included
- Personal introductions to suitable Christian au pairs
- Guidance throughout the matching process
- Candidate profiles, references and experience reviewed with you
- Guidance on the practical immigration considerations affecting your au pair
- Faith, church life and family expectations considered in the match
- Support while you and your prospective au pair get to know one another
- Ongoing support throughout the placement
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Plan for these additional costs.
These are typical costs that families budget for during the placement. They are guidelines, and not included in the agency fees.
Weekly pocket money
Agreed with your au pair
The amount varies with the role, hours, experience and location. Agree it clearly before the placement begins.
Room and meals
Provided by the family
Your au pair should have suitable accommodation and meals as part of living with your family.
Transport
Varies by family
You may need to budget for local transport, driving costs or car insurance depending on the placement.
Other agreed costs
Depends on the placement
Language classes, phone contributions or other agreed expenses may form part of the arrangement.
What if I don’t get matched?
If we cannot find you a suitable match, you will not be charged the programme fee.
Personal matching
How hosting works in the UK
We guide the introduction personally and help both sides clarify the arrangement before a decision is made.
- 1
Apply as a family
Tell us about your children, home, church life, location, timing and the kind of help you need.
- 2
Set out the practical offer
Explain duties, hours, accommodation, meals, financial arrangements, time off, driving and expected placement length.
- 3
Meet suitable Christian au pairs
We introduce applicants whose faith, character, experience and expectations may suit your household.
- 4
Talk openly
Use video calls to discuss children, daily routines, church life, location and practical expectations in detail.
- 5
Choose freely
Both sides decide whether the match is right. A recommendation from us is never pressure to accept.
- 6
Confirm and prepare
Agree the placement details in writing, complete payment at the required stage and prepare for arrival.
Frequently asked questions
How early should we start looking for an au pair?
Our regular families often plan several months ahead. Around six months gives the best opportunity to find a suitable match, particularly because au pairs may still be studying and need time to complete documents. If your need is sooner, contact us anyway — we regularly work with families on shorter timescales.
Do we have to belong to a particular Christian church or denomination?
No. What matters is that your family genuinely identifies as Christian and is involved in a church or fellowship. We work across mainstream Protestant, non-denominational and Catholic traditions. We look at compatibility between the family and au pair rather than requiring both to attend the same denomination.
Will the au pair attend our church?
Often an au pair will come with your family at first. They remain free to choose a suitable local church, especially if another congregation offers stronger opportunities for friendships, young-adult fellowship or worship that better fits their background.
Can we speak to someone before applying or matching?
Yes. Christian Au Pairs is a personal agency, not an online profile database. We can talk with you by phone, video call, WhatsApp or email and help you think through the type of placement that would suit your family.
What background checks and references do you ask for?
Our assessment includes childcare experience and references, a church-leader reference, a personal interview and the checks and documents required for the placement. We take particular interest in character, reliability, faith, church participation and suitability for caring for children.
How much should we pay our au pair?
Christian Au Pairs does not publish a fixed UK pocket-money recommendation. You and the au pair should agree the financial arrangements before placement, and the arrangement must comply with any UK employment and minimum-wage rules that apply to the duties and hours involved.
Can our au pair drive our car?
If driving is part of the role, discuss it before matching. The family should pay the programme-related insurance and petrol and make sure the au pair is safe and competent to drive in the UK before they drive children independently.
What if the placement is not working out?
Contact Christian Au Pairs early so we can understand the problem and help both sides communicate. For an ordinary UK early ending, the working policy is two weeks' notice, during which the au pair should ordinarily retain accommodation, normal agreed duties and agreed pay. Immediate safety or safeguarding concerns take priority over the ordinary notice process.
Current UK immigration and employment rules must be checked
The proposed arrangement must fit the au pair's current right to live and work in the UK and any applicable employment and minimum-wage requirements. Christian Au Pairs confirms the family-side placement details, but current GOV.UK and UKVI rules control where legal requirements apply.
Could a Christian au pair fit your family?
Read the hosting expectations and pricing carefully, then tell us about your household. We will guide the matching process personally from there.